about section 132

Those who are married in this life for time will in the next life be servants to Gods. Single and neither married nor given in marriage in the world to come.

Those who are married in this life for time and eternity but not by the holy spirit of promise that marriage is not done with authority and is not in force in the next world.

those who are married in this life for time and eternity by the holy spirit of promise will in the life to come continue to be married and will be Gods having a continuation of seed.

if this is true then what about those who did not have the opportunity to get married for eternity.

Well we do sealing in the temple for those who have passed and marrying them for eternity.

but then they did not do it in this life.

but God is just.

why do we do sealings if it is not to seal couples and families together?

IF a husband and wife. desired to be together for eternity, but did not have the opportunity and the only thing lacking is the the physical ordinance, then our doing it for them fulfills the law.

We shall be judged on the laws that we had. will a person from the dark ages be less likely to attain the celestial kingdom than myself having the full and everlasting gospel?

no, we will both be judged on the law that we had, if the only law another person has, is to have faith in God, and they do that perfectly, then they have lived righteously. if that righteous person loved their spouse and desired eternal marriage, but that ordinance was not available, then when we do their work for them then they can be reunited in the afterlife. and as a couple could enter into the celestial kingdom, having fulfilled all righteousness.

if that same person does not love their spouse and sees death as a day of freedom from bondage, if we seal them together will they be forced to be married in the next life?

no. it is the desire they BOTH had within the bounds of their contract that will be upheld

if a person contracts to be the servant to a master for 10 years but enjoys the relationship and wishes to continue indefinitely would a judge tell him that he could not? no of course not. but neither would he force the servant to continue longer than the agreed time period.

Likewise if a person wishes to be married for eternity then it is possible through the temple ordinances.

Can I have hope to be married to my spouse in the next life for eternity, if he refuses to do it in this one? - it depends on the laws that he has, the knowledge that has been revealed to him. does he KNOW it is possible to be married for eternity, and he does not want that? or does he have any understanding?

Though I have hope for this life. I think I have finally found hope for the next.

but we must still live according the the laws that we have that we may be counted as righteous.

and it is fair that I should have more laws to abide than another, I have asked for them. I have asked for further understanding. and I have been given it, and I must abide by the understandings that I have been given or it will not be counted for righteousness.